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wanttodoall2 65M
548 posts
9/27/2021 5:00 am

 Welcome frisky. I prefer to get to know someone first. Just like author said, the mind is our biggest sex organ. So I have to know what makes a person click and let them know how I roll also. Yes, on occasion I have just jumped right to it, but not many times. Have a wonderful Monday xoxo
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1bighammer1000 58M
4304 posts
9/27/2021 6:44 am

 I was having the same thoughts this morning, it is really great to get to know someone and have a connection. It seems to make the orgasms that much more intense.
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bucknaked701 60M
40 posts
9/27/2021 6:52 am

 I like to get to know someone a bit first, and that’s before even meeting. Besides the profile and pics, I like to observe (and chat) in a chatroom. I like to see her replies to questions and how she interacts with people, and especially how she reacts to comments. It can tell a lot about a person’s personality.


exsquid46 64M
Ask me for a photo
640 posts
9/27/2021 9:54 am

 Me Friskyfor1,


"1. Are you a fan of the direct approach?
2. The type that wants just meet for anonymous sex?
3.Does that happen?
4. A lot?
5. Are you the type that needs know someone first?
6. What pushes you make contact?
7.Do you read the profile?
8. Are you strictly visual?
9. What does it?"

1. I like a woman to be direct, dropping hints, flirting, and being coy, make me think they are just being friendly.

2. No, that holds no appeal to me

3. No

4. Never has happened.

5. That is preferred

6. Something in their profile that we have common interest in.

7. Yes I do. However being a standard member limits what I am able to see

8. No, however it does play a part in attraction.

9. A lot of little things.


boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
9/27/2021 9:58 am

 I prefer a connection! Age, a shared kink, hobby, someone who wants ME!


bucknaked701 60M
40 posts
9/27/2021 9:59 am

 Horrendous grammar lol…not that mine is perfect but I think it’s gooder than most lol


bucknaked701 60M
40 posts
9/27/2021 3:42 pm

 It doesn’t have to be perfect, but at least passable lol.


OttawaMan43sum 53M
2220 posts
9/29/2021 5:24 am

 Hello Friskyfor1,

I believe in a respectful approach in communications.

Ideally, I would like a direct approach in all matters of life to avoid misunderstandings and ambiguity. I've always refused those albeit rare opportunities offered for anonymous sex as I need to know someone first. That can take days, weeks, even months, depending on our mutual level of comfort with each other.

Because I lack the capability to read profiles online or send/receive IMs or AdultFriendFinder e-mails, I can't initiate contact. Instead, I have listed on my profile how someone could contact me privately so that we can begin to know each other. If she e-mails me privately, then I also ask that she send me her profile. I don't ask for her pic unless she broaches the subject first.


agelesssexylegs 80F
1145 posts
10/2/2021 11:44 pm

 Expectations on this and many other sites are way beyond what i comfortable with,no i do not hook up straight away,way too risky,men of any age are fickle visual creatures,pick the profile picture rather than combine the rest of the profile and maybe read the blog before messaging me,engage my mind and my body may follow,i agree with author and your thoughts


CarpeJamie 54M
289 posts
10/5/2021 11:26 am

 Have never had a 1 night stand; but I imagine the feeling leaves one pretty empty. I'm wrestling with society's prudish & pious teachings that have been ingrained in me since I was a kid and wondering if it makes sense to shed some of them. There are many activities that one enjoys just for the sake of it ... I love to play basketball ... I don't have to have a meeting of the minds to play ball with someone ... why is it a must to be emotionally and intellectually satisfied to enjoy sex. Certainly there are safety implications that necessitate going slowly. So short answer short. I'm conflicted but still practice the dance that society has taught me to.
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kamarel1 60M  
3 posts
10/16/2021 4:21 pm

 I surf pictures and videos. I do love eye candy. But if all they have are visual, it's hard to get a read on what interests them. I do read profiles. Read the questions and answers, if they've been answered. Blogs, if written. When I reach out, I try ask questions that tie into something they've written. It shows I at least took the time show interest in her thoughts. Quick hits occasionally happen. But, at least for me, are extremely rare.


1niceguy4u2008 63M
Ask me for a photo

11/11/2021 9:47 am

 I look for someone close by, long distance is hard. Then I have to find out what they are looking for. Anything with "soulmate" automatically was a no. (my ex wife, left for her soulmate...he didn't want her...just the free pussy...looks good on her). Non smokers and no drugs would be next, then would be the physical attraction. I have had a few relationships from here, good while they lasted. Monogamy is something species do naturally, humans don't, thus the amount of divorce etc. So. I firmly believe humans are not considered monogamous, but I am sure that will be contentious with some.


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