*Pics available on request* Recently separated, not entirely sure what I'm doing here to be honest. I signed up with the intentions of just "needing to get laid", but after some reflection I've come to realize that's not entirely right. While sex is important, and from what I recall in distant memories, was enjoyable, it's not the only thing that matters to me. I'm certainly not looking to jump into any committed situation at this point, but am looking for something closer to a FWB deal. There needs to be some kind of connection, and as I type this I am recognizing that the odds of that happening online, here, are minimal at best, but that's ok. We're here now so why not see what happens next? After years of being, for lack of a better term, a degenerate, I had a cliche life event that turned around my mindset and view on the world. I have a passion for self improvement; working out, reading, learning, etc., and would like to find someone with the same outlook. I am 420 friendly as that's my only remaining vice. I'll have a beer at the bar for the occasional social event, but otherwise I don't drink, quit cigarettes and will only take a pain killer if I'm in the ambulance on the way to the hospital. As much as I can, I avoid gossip and talking about people and would much rather discuss health and fitness, history, science, business ideas, our spiritual journeys, life, dreams, goals, plans, etc., The deeper you're willing the go, the more interested I'll be. For work, I have a white collar, work from home job as well as some additional projects going on. If you made it this far, through all the boringness that encapsulates my day to day life, good for you! You'll be happy to know that despite everything above, I'm actually pretty fun. I'm pretty quick, sarcastic and can be offensive, guess that's the Gen X thing. At the same time, I'll try to be as nice as I can to anyone I come across and buy books for people on a whim if I think they'll benefit from it as I feel it's a responsibility to make the world better place. I'm also very giving in the bedroom with a passion for using my tongue. :P