I am a native of California. I worked in the mortgage industry over ten years. I have lived in San Diego since Jan 2010. I own my own business in mortgage forbearance and modification, I day trade cryptocurrency, and I am studying blockchain web3 development. If you don't own some Bitcoin, Ethereum, and some of another "crypto", you are missing out on the best investment opportunity you might ever have. But I digress. From my one and only marriage, my Ex and I produced one . He is a fine upstanding man now, and I am quite proud of him. I am politically active. I am a hard core Progressive, you could say "anti-fascist". I've managed a Congressional campaign. I have protested, demonstrated, organized, and been arrested fighting for social and economic justice. I have taught myself many things, such as how to cook, building a computer, various software programs, and some coding. I had to learn probate law for a case I was involved in. I enjoy learning. I enjoy travel, cooking, movies, sports, music, and I have a good sense of humor. I have a recurring dream where I am a comedy writer. It usually takes place in a writers room at a table read for a sitcom (like Seinfeld or Married With ). The actors are reading the scrip and they read something I wrote, or I make a joke, and everyone laughs. I always wake up in a great mood when I have that dream.. In Public: My hobbies include golf and poker. I will speak in public but I need to have what ever I am going to say well rehearsed. I did a candidate introduction that was recorded. I must have rehearsed the intro dozens of times in my head the day before the event. The Bottom Line Is: I have lived and loved. I haven't traveled enough. I have been very fortunate with my sex life. I have lived almost all of my fantasies. Sexually speaking, I have no bucket list to speak of. Now, if I can help someone fulfill their fantasies, well that sounds like fun to me. I have been selfish in my pursuit of hedonistic pleasures. One could say obsessive. I have learned that "happiness" is a skill one must practice to achieve. However, I can not be "happy" all of the time. That is simply not possible. Happiness is not caused, or the result of, an external set of circumstances. The philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer said *“…[striving for happiness] is like an unquenchable thirst: we may attain some brief satisfactions, some momentary release, but in the nature of things these can never be more than temporary, and then we are on the rack once more. So unhappiness, or at least dissatisfaction, is our normal state of affairs.” So the question for me is: Should pursuing "happiness" be my goal? My answer is: No, **I should pursue to have purpose and meaning in my life. For with purpose and meaning in my life, times of happiness are likely, and endurance is more likely.All that being said: My journey has brought me many satisfactions and times of pure bliss. For better and or worse, there were times I could literally feel I was fundamentally changed during these experiences. I Seek My Muse: I am a loner, a rogue, and I enjoy the pleasure of my own company. Yes it is lonely at times. To paraphrase one of the greatest movies of all time (The Godfather II) - this is the life I have chosen. I have been fortunate enough to have been in love three times, and had several other special relationships. I think that is more than most people get here on Earth. **Truth be told, I don't like most people. The irony of finding purpose and meaning in my life, by fighting for mass social and economic justice, is not lost on me.** Having a who is a fine upstanding individual, is my greatest achievement. At the time of this writing: I live in an uninspiring world. Basic members can feel free to contact me, who knows what fun ideas we'll entertain ...[B][/B]

My Ideal Person She will be intelligent, attractive, have a great sense of humor, and exude a certain sexuality. Most likely a professional.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
We can discuss that over dinner.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
My desk at work, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Kelly Bundy

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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