Hedonist and lover of life ,who enjoys giving pleasure as much as receiving.While I am not here seeking a relationship beyond that of a FWB nature,I'm not opposed to the possibility of meeting someone with whom something more might develop over the course of time. I have been divorced for almost five years now,and have no ren,I am not one to live in the past,and I do my best to live in and enjoy the present.I suppose if a label is needed,swinger would most likely be the one given to me.While I enjoy the sexual intimacy of a one on one relationship,I like to be involved with a partner who is open to sharing ,threesomes,group sex and sexual encounters that might not include my partner and me together.I'm not the possessive type nor am I a jealous type either....of course this is assuming I were to be involved with anyone at the time.I am looking for others,be they singles,couples or groups that have the same attitude.I'm comfortable with most any number of people enjoying themselves with one another,that to me is what it is about,people enjoying themselves. While I am a perable fellow,I tend to be reserved when in social settings,preferring to take in what is going on more than being the focal point,but am capable of carrying a conversation if need be.Outside of my sexual desires and that side of me I have any interests other than sex.I enjoy traveling,the outdoors and live music to name a few.A night out with some friends taking in a great band,or sitting around a fire out in the woods,topped of with the sharing of pleasures of the flesh,well friends that is my kind of night,and that of the people I hope to connect with as well. I really am not that comfortable with this part of filling out one of these profiles,the "let me tell you about me"part,but bear with me and I hope that I don't sound as if I'm tooting my own horn to much...man there is innuendo all around with the past few sentences,but let me try to stay focused lol.Let me just say that If I fail to hit on something you might like to know,please feel free to ask me anything,I am a open book. Well I'm 52,most people guess younger,and I'm not really sure sometimes that I really am that old,but my birth certificate says I am so it must be so.I am 5'11 in height,and weigh about 210,little more than I usually carry but do lots of physical work so feel I carry it pretty well.I am about 6 ' in "that" department,and while I guess about average have never had any complaints,to my face anyway lol.I've always heard its the motion of the ocean and not the size of the ship,well I don't know about all that,but feel I have a pretty good feel for the motion.I enjoy many things from mild to wild,and again enjoy giving pleasure as much as receiving.When playing with a couple I am comfortable with any guidelines and am not looking for anything more than the tree of us enjoying ourselves..and I have a very good understanding of the word no,and no problem hearing it when spoke.I have respect for my partners and hope for the same in return.I also expect discretion,and give it in return.If labels are needed I guess I am more trysexual than anything, i' m willing to try most anything and if I find it enjoyable will do it again.I play safe and am clean and intend to stay that way.I am a smoker,but consider myself a a respectful one and don't require a cig in my hand at all times.I partake in a little 420 from time to time,but those times grow farther an farther apart these days.I don't drink at all,but have no problem if you do, I'm college educated,own my own business and am fortunate to be around to help provide for my mother whom is bedridden.I'm the only family,so while the help of 24 hr in home care givers is a blessing,my time is busy and I cherish any that I can just let loose. As I said if you would like to know anything more please ask.

My Ideal Person Adventurous,open minded,fun loving.People who don't take themselves or life to seriously...you know why should we,none of us get out of it alive.Someone open to trying new things and a sexual person of course.I don't really have a look or type,as I can be draw to different people for different reasons.As I said I'm no gym rat,and don't expect it from those I play with,but HWP is something I prefer,just my thing.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage, Some don't, but am flexable as to help others withdesiresthey, altough some checked you won't find me doing, watchingothersin

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each, Ability to not take themselves too seriously

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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