DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU ARE NOT SERIOUS!! Not looking to photo swap, sext, video, or chat forever. Just looking for someone to show me tenderness and consideration for my feelings but still be a strong assertive man who is willing to take charge of most things. I want to be romanced and have fun and if sex is meant to happen, it will. Looking for chemistry and real attraction. I am 53 but everyone thinks I look 35 or so. I am fit and healthy and looking for someone reaably fit. I am outgoing and friendly and have a positive outlook. I am married, but obviously not completely happy. I'm not getting everything I need. I prefer younger men. I’m really hoping for “the boyfriend experience” since that is part of what’s missing from my marriage. I want to actually do things outside of the bedroom. Art galleries, museums, shows, parks, walking. All these activities can build a form of desire between us.

My Ideal Person My ideal man is reasonably fit, but not overboard on the muscles, tattoos are ok if tasteful (I have two small ones) piercings I am kind of on the fence about. I don't mind a pierced tongue or eyebrow but again, too much is really too much! Someone who is intelligent and cultured but not a snob. Someone who loves music and art and the outdoors. I love the ocean as well as the woods. Someone who understands the emotional life of a woman and knows how to be tender, but also knows when it's time to get a little rough If your profile pic is just your penis then this is probably not you. You must have an awesome sense of humor or at least laugh at my jokes, lol. Knowing how to have a good time outside the bedroom is important. Don't take life so serious; it's not permanent haha.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Since I have this fascination with men in uniform, I often
fantasize about having an affair with a police officer
who regularly pulls me over when I am driving and touches
me a little too much (or not enough) and sometimes we meet
at secluded locations for hot, quick sex on the hood of his
cruiser. Of course there are handcuffs involved. He has
a partner who is present sometimes who is watching us and
I look directly into his eyes when he does.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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