Looking to find a woman that is good person and someone I have things in common with. I know, no pic, no problem, I'll send one upon request but just didn't want everyone I work with and the neighbors knowing more than they should. And no, I'm not married or otherwise attached which is the first thing all women think. Discretion can be a good thing for all of us. Not necessarily looking for a long term deal but not ruling it out if everything clicks. Everybody has to be comfortable with each other and respect each other also.